Fact-based journalism that sparks the Canadian conversation<\/p>\n
Meta, Google, and Snap are facing accusations that addictive platforms are causing serious, even fatal, damage<\/p>\n
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Everyone at Souris Regional School knew Harry Burke. He was a popular grade eleven student, six feet tall and striking, with bright-blue eyes and a mischievous smile. His teachers enjoyed debating him\u2014he was always up on the latest political news\u2014and his coaches appreciated the attitude he brought to the basketball court: he convinced his teammates to arrive to games like NBA stars, decked out in dress shirts and ties.<\/p>\n
Off the hardwood, Harry sometimes wore another uniform. He\u2019d joined the Cadets at thirteen, enlisted in the Reserves three years later, and, once a year, donned his military fatigues to tour from class to class and speak about the discipline, camaraderie, and courage that the armed forces had instilled in him. He had planned, after graduating from high school, to leave his hometown of Bay Fortune, a quiet community on the eastern end of Prince Edward Island, to attend the Royal Military College of Canada in Kingston, Ontario. \u201cHe was a patriot,\u201d his father, Carl Burke, told me. \u201cHe said to mom and I, \u2018I want to change Canada. I want to make it better.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n
Harry spent the weekend of April 22, 2023, the same way he spent most weekends: doing drills and basic training on the opposite end of PEI. On Sunday evening, having completed his penultimate stint of boot camp, he did the familiar two-hour drive home. By the time he stumbled in the front door, it was late, and his parents\u2014Carl and his wife, Barbie Lavers, both nurses\u2014noticed he was tired. So they allowed him to take Monday off from school to rest and catch up on homework.<\/p>\n
That day, Carl stayed home with Harry, chatting as they did chores. The two were tight. They regularly rode around the Island together on their Harley-Davidsons. Between them, few topics of conversation were off limits. So it wasn\u2019t unusual when, after lunch, Harry held his phone up and showed his dad a picture of a girl from Nova Scotia he\u2019d started messaging on Instagram earlier that day. \u201cThat\u2019s a long piece to go for a girlfriend,\u201d Carl joked.<\/p>\n
Carl gave the girl little more thought until, around 9 p.m., Harry walked into his bedroom looking flustered. \u201cDad,\u201d he said. \u201cI screwed up.\u201d He explained that the girl had sent him nude photos and asked him to do the same, and that he\u2019d sent some via Snapchat. And then the awful truth had come out: the girl he had been talking to wasn\u2019t a girl at all but a scammer who was threatening to send screenshots to everyone Harry knew\u2014his classmates, his basketball team, his commanding officer\u2014unless he sent money. \u201cCome on, Dad,\u201d Harry pleaded. \u201cYou have to help me out.\u201d<\/p>\n
Carl quickly convened a family meeting around the kitchen island. He and Barbie were cranky\u2014they\u2019d always told Harry and his younger sister, Ella, not to share explicit photos online. But, more than that, they were concerned. They told Harry they loved him and that everything would be okay. They decided against paying the blackmailer, convinced they would just ask for more. Instead, the Burkes agreed they\u2019d call a local RCMP officer they knew first thing in the morning. Harry seemed satisfied with that plan. But as the family was about to turn in, Barbie\u2019s phone buzzed. The scammer had found her in Harry\u2019s Instagram followers and sent her a message, vowing to ruin her son\u2019s life. \u201cThat really hit Harry,\u201d Carl told me. \u201cBecause he figured, at that point, everything that he had worked hard for was done, and that he would never become what he wanted to be.\u201d<\/p>\n
The next morning, when Carl walked into Harry\u2019s room to wake him up, the bed had not been slept in. \u201cMy heart just started pounding,\u201d Carl says. He ran through the house looking for him until he opened the door to the garage. Harry was face down on the floor. He\u2019d shot himself.<\/p>\n
The following minutes, hours, and days were a maelstrom of tears and sirens, phone calls to bewildered relatives, and visits from heavy-hearted friends. Through his grief, Carl arranged a military funeral for Harry. But once that day came and went, he felt utterly lost. \u201cYou don\u2019t know what to do,\u201d Carl says. \u201cYou don\u2019t know what to say.\u201d He kept replaying that Monday in his mind, wondering whether Harry would still be alive if he\u2019d made him go to school, had he been less grumpy at the kitchen island, had he paid the money the scammer demanded.<\/p>\n