I’m sure you’re already aware of this, but there has been an unfortunate assumption batting around that men who like anal sex are gay. Well, I’m here today to prove them wrong.
Of course, the majority of gay men enjoy anal sex, but it’s by no means limited to that particular segment of the population.
Women, men, and non-binary folk of all sexualities can enjoy anal sex – and there’s no reason why they shouldn’t. If it feels good, do it, I say!
And while a finger, a penis, and a tongue can go a long way in the backdoor department, there are also a ton of tools you can use to unlock the underrated pleasure hub.
But here’s something you might not know: although porn would have you think otherwise, you can’t just dive into using the biggest, girthiest anal dildo on the market.
Full-on penetrative anal sex can take four to six weeks to build up to, according to anal surgeon and founder of Bespoke Surgical, Dr Evan Goldstein, because (duh!) it’s a muscle that requires training just like any other.
So depending on whether you’re an anal aficionado or a backdoor beginner, we’ve rounded up the best anal sex toys for every kind of experience level.
Plus, we’ve consulted a sexologist for her tips on how to use them. Keep reading to find out!
If you’re completely new to backdoor play, you might be wondering the options you have available to you.
Good news is you have a whole smorgasbord to choose from, according to Sofie Roos, sexologist and therapist at Passionerad.
“Butt plugs are designed to be inserted and worn in place, which gives a feeling of fullness and pressure. It’s also an amazing way to prepare before anal sex.”
“You can buy butt plugs in a variety of sizes, materials and with different features, such as with vibrations for anal orgasms, with tails for roleplaying, with a small diamond in the end.”
“There are also anal dildos that are designed to penetrate the ass in a safe and comfortable way, often with a slightly bent shape to stimulate the prostate,” says Roos.
“Other common anal sex toys are prostate vibrators that give P-spot orgasms for men, or general anal vibrators that give a deep and intense feeling,” she says.
“Anal beads – a series of connected beads that you insert one at a time and then slowly pull out – are also popular,” Roos adds.
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