DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: Being stuck in the hot city while my wife and kids were enjoying the lake made me feel so alone. I felt sorry for myself. I thought I deserved some kind of reward, and it showed up in the shape of a new woman joining our office last month.
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DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: Being stuck in the hot city while my wife and kids were enjoying the lake made me feel so alone. I felt sorry for myself. I thought I deserved some kind of reward, and it showed up in the shape of a new woman joining our office last month.
DEAR MISS LONELYHEARTS: Being stuck in the hot city while my wife and kids were enjoying the lake made me feel so alone. I felt sorry for myself. I thought I deserved some kind of reward, and it showed up in the shape of a new woman joining our office last month.
What a character. She was assigned to my department and was so full of new ideas — an injection of pure energy. She’s not beautiful, but her amazing smile lights me up. I’ve had a crush on her since Day 1.
Although I’m older than her and married, I’m alive and sexual.
But when we finally got to talking about sex last week, this woman dropped a big bombshell. She told me she’s bisexual and has a female partner coming to Winnipeg to live with her. What a shock.
Well, I guess that’s kind of good because now my marriage isn’t in danger. But it’s also bad because this woman is still so sexy. She said she could see I was attracted to her right off the top. She apologized for not telling me earlier about her partner.
Dear Roller-Coaster: Now you know there’s no chance for a personal relationship with the new hire, just shrug your shoulders, relax and hopefully enjoy summertime with people who do love you and want you — such as your wife and children.
There’s still time to head out to the beach and get re-acquainted with your family, especially if you’ve only been half there this summer. The kids will be thrilled to have you there to do things with them, and your wife may be missing you, too.
As for your almost-affair, you now know there’s nothing doing with that woman. The crush was not meant to be anything big except a warning you were dangerously close to risking your marriage. It’s time to work on improving your relationship with your wife.
To that end, try to think back to when you loved her so much you wanted to marry her. What has been missing in recent times, other than wholehearted lovemaking?
Happily, that kind of sex often comes back with lighter and happier feelings between you two.
Dear Miss Lonelyhearts: I have my own successful little business selling one-of-a-kind sexy products, so I rewarded myself with a month of summer holiday time at a beach and spent some of my savings. I stayed up at the lake way longer than I should have.
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